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Divorce

  On a Sunday morning, it might have been fall or spring, my parents woke from their sleep. What was the conversation like for them that morning as they woke, for the last time, in the same bed? In the same room. In the same house. Was it conversation or was it argument? Did it re-affirm what they were about to do? Did they question themselves? Did the sheets feel any different? Did the air smell different? How long had it been stale? Half the day went by before they called us upstairs. What went through THEIR minds?  For me, the mind decides what it remembers. It was the in-between type of weather where some of the house windows could be open…where t-shirts worked as long as a sweatshirt was handy. The three windows of the computer room were slightly ajar. My brother, sister and myself had been called to the computer room by our parents. It was an odd request, one that interfered with the amount of daylight my brother and I would have left to frolic around our yard and cu...

Kokua for Kauai | Being Here Now is Where I Belong!

I am realizing that calculated risk is in imperative action if I am going to fulfill a life of purpose and promise. This concept has always been present in my mind, though sometimes, similar to a thick canopy of tree tops blocking the sun’s rays, it’s enormity and necessity is veiled from my mind’s view. Just the concept, “calculated” & “risk” resonates to my core. I need a certain measure of extreme in my life, but I need to know I have planned properly for it, enough to which I am not putting myself in harm’s way. Planning isn’t always a triptych path of the roads to come, but more a trial and discovery through life that allows for, at the moment a risky decision is made, the ability for the mind to spin it’s rolodex of events, and says: “Yes, you got this!” of at least, “Hey, I am pretty sure you won’t muck it up!” Where do I belong? Where do any of us truly belong, swimming amongst other bodies on this small island, swimming in a larger body of water in the pac...

Aloha Friday Motivation | Irish Pub Edition | #32

  Sláinte and Happy Aloha Friday! ( Blog Link ) St Paddy’s day is a lot of things to a lot of people, the least of which is a celebration of the actual St. Patrick. In fact, if you looked from afar at the debauchery and hooliganism you would swear you were witnessing a celebration of Bacchus, god of wine and giver of ecstasy (of course substitute the wine for Guinness and Irish Whiskey)! In 2008, for an entire year, 52 consecutive Sundays, I spent my late morning into afternoons at an Irish Pub, Anna Liffey’s (The Liff), in New Haven CT taking in (too many) pints of Smithwicks and a troop of amateur Musicians who would gather from 10AM until whenever each Sunday to play an Irish Jam session, not that dissimilar to this video . Some Sunday’s saw 20 musicians, some saw two, but there was always music emanating from the traditional irish pub (conveniently located sub-street level) on Sundays. Every Sunday was St. Paddy’s day that year. Now, every St Paddy’s Day brings me back ...